Julia Mathilda Whitney was born on December 12, 1908 in McHenry County, North Dakota to Angus Duncan Lankford Whitney and Julia Halverson (Tyge) Whitney.  She grew up in and around McHenry County, North Dakota.  On June 20, 1930 she was married to Oscar Hugo Carlson in Minot, Ward, North Dakota, in her parents’ home.  They had six children: Hugo Leonard Lankford (b. 1931), Carl Emil Joseph “Joe” (b. November 30, 1932), Oscar Walter “Oz” (b. February 6, 1935), Julian Alf (b. February 15, 1936), and Julia Elsie (b. March 19, 1948).

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Leonard and Julia Whitney, Joe Hasketh

Leonard and Julia Whitney, Joe Hasketh

Julia Whitney, Joe Hasketh, and Leonard Whitney

Julia Whitney, Joe Hasketh, and Leonard Whitney

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Julia (Second From the Right) at School

Julia went to a rural school that had 10 kids.  The teacher walked a quarter mile to school, and Julia walked one and a quarter miles or rode horses there.
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She and O. Hugo moved to Montana in 1930, then lived in Halliday, North Dakota; Williston, North Dakota;Aberdeen, South Dakota; Valley City, North Dakota; and, finally, Rapid City, South Dakota.  Her son, Hugo, explains how O. Hugo and Julia met:

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“My mother was born on a farm near Minot, ND and received her high school diploma from Granville, NDand then attended Minot State College.  She met my dad when she was teaching school in Halliday. Her roommate and she were going to do some cross-country skiing.  They were just starting out when my dad rode by on his saddle pony.  He tossed her the end of his lariat and said, ‘hang on.’  He then proceeded to pull her down the main street of Halliday.  It was an unusual beginning for their courtship.  They were married two years later, and I arrived the following year.”

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Julia’s aunt and uncle were Lizzie and Henry Tyge.  They had children, but all died when they were still babies.  They had oil on their land, and they left a legacy of oil money to Julia and many other relatives.  They lived in North Dakota, and Julia would frequently visit them on their farm (with no electricity).  Henry was a farmer.  He went blind from macular degeneration, a condition Julia would suffer from later in life.

Julia Whitney House - 1915

Julia Whitney House – 1915

Her family lived twelve miles from the nearest town.  She always had cats on the farm.  She loved her parents.  They always asked the kids to be good to each other and help each other if in need.  They made sure the kids got through school.  She remembers leaving coffee and cookies for Santa Claus on Christmas.  Julia’s grandparents were in Canada and Iowa, so she never saw them.  They had relatives in Europe as well.

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She learned to drive at age 18–her dad taught her.  She learned on a trip to Detroit with her parents.  It took five days to get there from home.  They went to visit her brother in a Model T Ford. juliawhitney02

Julia With School Friends

Julia With School Friends

The U.S. won World War II while she was in school.  She said her favorite birthday was her 21st, when “I became my own boss.”

Julia's Uncle Henry and Aunt Lizzie

Julia’s Uncle Henry and Aunt Lizzie Tyge

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Julia and Leonard Whitney

She attended Granville High School, and her parents put her through college.  Her first job was teaching in the rural school.  She met her future husband around this time.  She loved to travel.

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Julia’s grandson Hugh remembers:

“My first memories of my grandparents were when they lived in Rapid City, SD.  My aunt Julia still lived with them.  We lived in Aberdeen and it was about a 300 mile drive to visit them.  We would usually visit once in the winter around Christmas and I stayed for a week in the summer a few times.

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Julia and Stepbrother Joe (Hasketh) Graduation

O. Hugo and Julia Carlson Wedding

O. Hugo and Julia Carlson Wedding

Julia’s favorite day of her life was her wedding day.

Lone Star Farm - Julia's Childhood Home

Lone Star Farm – Julia’s Childhood Home

She became a teacher because she enjoyed it, and her brother had taught in a rural school for one year.  All grades were in one room, with ten minutes per class.

Julia as Mother in Little Red Riding Hood Play - Minot State Teachers College

Julia as Mother in Little Red Riding Hood Play – Minot State Teachers College

O. Hugo and Julia Carlson

O. Hugo and Julia Carlson

O. Hugo and Julia in the Yard With Kids

O. Hugo and Julia in the Yard With Kids

Julia's Boys: Hugo, Joe (Emil), and Julian, Julian

Julia’s Boys: Hugo, Joe (Emil), and Julian, Julian

Hugo, Joe (Emil), Uncle Helge, Oz, and Julian Carlson

Hugo, Joe (Emil), Uncle Helge, Oz, and Julian Carlson

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Oz With Julia

Oz With Julia

Julia’s philosophy of life: “Be a good parent, a good friend, and help your friends.”

(Unknown), Oscar Hugo, Julia, Mabel and Charles Christenson ... Julia Wrote On Back of Picture "Notice my New Hat. It Isn't an expensive one but I kind of like it."

(Unknown), Oscar Hugo, Julia, Mabel and Charles Christenson … Julia wrote on the back of picture: “Notice my new hat. It isn’t an expensive one but I kind of like it.”

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Leonard and Julia Whitney, Joe Hasketh, Lizzie and Henry Tyge

Leonard and Julia Whitney, Joe Hasketh, Lizzie and Henry Tyge

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JuliaWhitneyArtzStudioJulia’s favorite movie was Lawrence of Arabia.

O. Hugo and Julia

O. Hugo and Julia

OHugoCarlsonsChristmasCard11juliawhitney05My brother Craig and I had some adventures at the lake.  He once took me on a hike around the lake.  Unfortunately we forgot to bring water, and I was the thirstiest little boy ever by the time we got to the marina.  He also rowed Grandpa’s boat all the way across the lake once.

Back Row: LaRae, Julian Joe (Emil), Hugo

Back Row: LaRae, Julian, Hugo, Oz, Joe (Emil), and Karen Carlson, Front Row: Craig, Julia, O. Hugo, and Julia Carlson

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Julie, Karen, Julian, O. Hugo, Julia, and Hugo

Hugo, O. Hugo, Julie, Karen, LaRae, and Julia Carlson

Hugo, O. Hugo, Julie, Karen, LaRae, and Julia Carlson

Hugo, Julia, Julie, and O. Hugo

Hugo, Julia, Julie, and O. Hugo

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LaVon Robertson, Julia, and Grandkids

LaVon Robertson, Julia, and Grandkids

Leonard and Julia Whitney, Joe Hasketh, Lizzie and Henry Tyge

Leonard and Julia Whitney, Joe Hasketh, Lizzie and Henry Tyge

Henry Tyge, O. Hugo Carlson, Lizzie Tyge, Julia, Oz, and Julian Carlson

Henry Tyge, O. Hugo Carlson, Lizzie Tyge, Julia, Oz, and Julian Carlson

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Henry Tyge, Hugo and Julian Carlson, Lizzie Tyge, Oz and Julia (Whitney) Carlson

O. Hugo, Julia, Lucille and Helge Carlson

O. Hugo, Julia, Lucille and Helge Carlson

Joe (Emil), Oz, Julian, Hugo, LaRae, O. Hugo, Julie, and Julia

Joe (Emil), Oz, Julian, Hugo, LaRae, O. Hugo, Julie, and Julia

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Julia, Julie, and (Unknown) Baby

Julia, Julie, and (Unknown) Baby

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O. Hugo and Julia

O. Hugo and Julia

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Julia (Whitney) Carlson and Lizzie Tyge

Julia (Whitney) Carlson and Lizzie Tyge

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Julia and O. Hugo Carlson

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Aunt Julia had a pure bred male siamese cat named Lucky.  It had crossed blue eyes and a knot in it’s tail.  It was a fairly mean tom cat and bit more than one of us.  It finally attacked Grandma Julia once when she accidently stepped on him.  He actually waited a minute or two before he ran over and bit her in the leg.

Julia With Ginger (Back), Julie, and Grandkids

Julia With Ginger (Back), Julie, and Grandkids

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Julia With Craig Carlson at His Med School Graduation

Julia With Grandson Craig Carlson at His Med School Graduation

Grandma Julia sewing

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Julia With Great-Granddaughter Mary (Krug) Schmidt

Julia With Great-Granddaughter Julia

Back Roe: Julian Carlson, Joe (Emil) Carlson, Hugo Carlson; Front Row: Julie Carlson, Julia (Whitney) Carlson, Oz Carlson

Back Roe: Julian Carlson, Joe (Emil) Carlson, Hugo Carlson; Front Row: Julie Carlson, Julia (Whitney) Carlson, Oz Carlson

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Oscar, Julia, Hugo, Julia, and Joe (Emil) Carlson

Oscar, Julia, Hugo, Julia, and Joe (Emil) Carlson

juliawhitney06After Grandpa’s death Grandma moved into several apartments over the years.  I went to the School of Mines in Rapid City for one semester and went out to dinner with Grandma a few times.  She developed pretty severe macular degeneration with loss of most of her vision.  She then moved in with Mom and Dad for several years.  Alzheimer’s disease eventually came and she moved into a nursing home prior to her death.

Julia and Julian Carlson

Julia and Julian Carlson

Grandma was also Swedish and Norwegian.  She was an elementary school teacher for many years-mainly 4th grade I think.  She was very sweet and carried herself with grace.”  Her patience is memorialized as she reminisces about growing up in the early part of the 20th century in this interview [conducted by her great-grandson when she was entering the early stages of Alzheimer’s]:

Julia passed away on February 17, 1999 in Saint Paul, Ramsey, Minnesota.  She was interred at Mountain View Cemetery next to O. Hugo in Rapid City, South Dakota.

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